The Story of My Scar (and the Faithfulness of My Mother)

The Story of My Scar (and the Faithfulness of My Mother)

I have what looks like is going to be a scar under my right eye. It happened a few days after my mom was in a horrific car accident (January 2019) that almost took her life. I spent every day in the hospital with her as she was dealing with seven broken bones, three surgeries, and bleeding on the brain. I went home one night to go check in on the fam and help with a few things around the house. Alight in the living room needed to be changed, so I went to grab the ladder out of our utility closet in the garage. When I grabbed the ladder, the weed whacker fell off the brace that holds it up...

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Dissertation Draft – Conclusion

Dissertation Draft – Conclusion

I just found myself all up in my feelings tonight as I wrote the first draft of my conclusion for the doctoral dissertation. Three years worth of academic research and practical ministry as I've explore race, economics, and friendship as it relates to the topic of biblical neighborliness. Here's my first stab at my conclusion... it will change through the editing process, but I wanted to share the experience as it unfolds. There's probably mistakes, but after three years and 12+ hours of writing today alone, I don't hardly care at all ... hahahahaha... shoot me a message if you have any...

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How God Uses Reluctant Leaders

How God Uses Reluctant Leaders

Ever feel reluctant in your leadership or too nervous to speak up? Welcome to the company of heroes of the faith. We may remember their names now, but everyone one of them were normal folks like you and I. Consider the story of Moses. Even though he is now regarded as one of the central figures in the Bible, he was an incredibly reluctant leader. God saw strength, character, and integrity in Moses. He knew the task ahead would be arduous, and he knew Moses could handle the heat. However, like many of us, all Moses could see was his insecurities and inadequacies. He said, "I can't speak...

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Docusen Family Cell Phone Agreement

Docusen Family Cell Phone Agreement

Each kid in our home has gotten a cell phone when they got to middle school. It is both a fun moment for the family to communicate with our kids in a new way, and a terrifying reality that the world is opening to them in a whole new way. We've had ups and downs along the way, but overall we have absolutely awesome kids that are (mostly) open and honest with us. One of the ways that we try to encourage that openness is by setting clear boundaries and letting them know that they can talk to us. Here's the agreement between us and them that we came up with recently. I found a template at...

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Who I Was, Who I Am Becoming

Who I Was, Who I Am Becoming

I have a thing for ships. This is Edward Moran's "Ship at Sea, Sunset" painting. Ships have been a prevailing metaphor for my journey of faith as I travel from who I was to who I am becoming. It is fascinating to me that the ship in this picture does not have a motor, depending only on the wind to propel it toward the intended destination. You cannot see the wind, and I cannot "see" the Holy Spirit. I can feel the wind. I can feel the Holy Spirit (most days). I am also struck that the crew has to work with the wind by adjusting the sails to get this ship to the destination. I am working with...

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A Review of Isaiah 58:1-14 – God’s Heart for Equity and Justice

A Review of Isaiah 58:1-14 – God’s Heart for Equity and Justice

Introduction             Spiritual disciplines are practices that orient the heart and mind of followers of Christ to see past the distractions of our culture and uncover the heart of God.  Dallas Willard states, “Our plan for a life of growth in the life of the kingdom of God must be structured around disciplines for the spiritual life. A discipline is any activity within our power that we engage in to enable us to do what we cannot do by direct effort.”[1] God will faithfully lead his children to the things that matter to his heart, but each person must choose to orient their lives in a...

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Religious Leaders & the Poor (Mark 12:38-13:2)

Religious Leaders & the Poor (Mark 12:38-13:2)

**This is an academic paper written for my Doctor of Ministry program at Southeastern University. The formatting is weird (bullet numbers, spacing, etc.) but my only desire is to give this an online home, with the hope that it may benefit some. God cares so deeply for the poor and marginalized, and he's not nearly as impressed religious systems as we are...  I hope this is a blessing to those who take the time to read and consider the story from Mark's Gospel. All footnotes are found at the very end and correspond with the number in the body of the writing. Introduction Mark 12:38-13:2 is an...

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The Church’s Response to Generational Poverty

I've been doing a lot of reading, research, and writing for my doctoral program these days. One more semester to go before I start writing my dissertation in June. Normal routine is to finish my papers for school and then send them to Dara, my mom, and my dad with a similar message. "You are my wife and you just saw me at the kitchen table writing this for hours. Please read this."  "You are my (insert mom or dad here). You have to read this."  Beyond those three people, most of my work has only been read by my professors (who are brilliant, kind, caring, and encouraging) at Southeastern...

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A Celebration of Life (The One Year Anniversary of the Day My Friend Was Stabbed)

“Please pray, we are in an ambulance and Dan has been stabbed.” August 12, 2016 was a pretty simple day. I looked at my calendar the night before and realized that I only had one meeting scheduled – lunch with my friend Darren – and the remainder of the day was simply getting final details in order for the upcoming service that weekend at Center City Church. I was sitting on my couch when this message came through. My heart sank and my mind raced in terror. I called out to Dara and we prayed. We prayed hard. Through the fear and the questions and the worry. We prayed. Corrie never makes...

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Recommended Reading / Generational Poverty, Race, Socioeconomics, Community Development, Ministry in High Poverty Communities.

I've had several people ask me recently for a recommended reading list from the stuff I'm reading for my doctoral program on generational poverty. This is a wide ranging list of some of the books that have been the most impacting to me so far on this journey. If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out. Personally, I would start with Drew Hart's book, "Trouble I've Seen" if you're wanting to explore the church's role in racial reconciliation. I would also put Ronald Sider's "Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger" near the top of the list, as well. For a more technical selection,...

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